Decolonizing Love on Instagram: "We’ve spent the last few years having in-depth conversations about hierarchy with the polyamory community. We’ve taught about hierarchy in workshops around the world, and we’ve gotten to talk to a range of thought leaders on this topic, from writers who coined polyamory terms related to hierarchy that are used often, to anthropologists and evolutionary scientists. We’ve noticed there are a lot of fallacies around how people understand hierarchy, and then a real f